Unit 5

Text A

Listening

First Listening
Before listening to the tape, have a quick look at the following worda.

compromise
妥协

give way
让步

tradition
传统

individual
人人, 人体

Second Listening
Listen to the tape again. Then, choose the best answer to each of the following questions.

1. A compromise is an agreement in which_________.
A) each one gives up something so that the other can be happy
B) people talk about their differences and decide on the best solution
C) people agree to disagree
D) the older person gets to decide what will be done
2. Ted and Mary took their first vacation in the mountains so that_________.
A) Ted could get some exercise every day
B) Mary could lie by the pool every day
C) both A) and B)
D) neither A) nor B)
3. What problem did they have with their first child?
A) Ted wanted a unique name and Mary wanted a traditional name.
B) Ted wanted a traditional name and Mary wanted a unique name.
C) Ted wanted a boy and Mary wanted a girl.
D) Ted wanted a girl and Mary wanted a boy.
4. How did Ted and Mary decide on their son's name?
A) They gave him both names.
B) They took her mother's advice and named him Hamlet.
C) Ted named this child, and Mary will name their next child.
D) They took Uncle Fred's advice and named him Boyd.

Pre-reading Questions

1. What is a compromise? Skim the first paragraph of the text to find it out and then give a definition of it in your own words.
2. What is the most difficult compromise you have ever made? First, tell your classmates what the situation was, and let them guess what you decided to do. Then, explain what you actually did, why you did so, and how you feel about it now.

The Language of Compromise

Leslie Dunkling

"Let me give you one piece of advice," I said to Ted and Mary just before they got married a few years ago. "If you want to stay happily married, always be prepared to compromise. When you have different opinions about something, you each give way a little. You take the middle course. That is compromise." And I'm glad to say that the young couple seemed to take that advice.
I remember when they took their first holiday together. Ted wanted to do something energetic, because he didn't usually get much exercise during the year. Mary's job meant that she was on her feet most of the time. All she wanted to do was lie in the sun. Ted hated the idea of lying on a beach; Mary hated the idea of being too active. They compromised, and took their holiday in mid-summer, high in the Alps. Mary was able to lie in the sun by the hotel swimming pool, while Ted went off for long walks in the mountains with a group of hikers. In the evening they met at the hotel, both content with their day, happy to eat a leisurely meal together and dance a little afterwards.
They compromised over everything and they were very happy.
To complete their happiness, they had a baby when they had been married for three years—a son. But that, strangely, was when the problem arose. They had to name their son, of course, and each had a name in mind; not the same name, unfortunately. It seemed that a situation had arisen where compromise was impossible. Ted wanted to call their son Robert, Mary wanted to call him Lawrence. How can you compromise with names like that? No, this time one of them would have to give way, it seemed. There would have to be a winner, and a loser. That was how they saw things, at least.
Mary told me all about it when I called at the hospital two days after the baby's birth.
"Ted wants to call him Robert," Mary said, "because there's a tradition in his family. The eldest son is always Robert or Edward. His father was Robert, his grandfather Edward, his great-grandfather Robert, and so on."
"That seems reasonable," I said.
"I don't want my son to be named after someone in the family," Mary said. "He's a unique individual, and I want him to have a name that no one else in the family has had. I want to call my son Lawrence."
"That seems reasonable, too," I said.
"Everyone's been giving me advice," Mary said. Then she told me who had given her advice, and what advice she had been given, (but not in the same order). I had to guess who gave what advice. Maybe you'd like to try to do that as well?

These were the people:

1) Uncle Fred, who was a painter, and liked vivid colours.
2) Aunt Sybil, who spent every spare minute in her garden.
3) Cousin John, who spent far too much of his time at horse races and simply couldn't resist a gamble.
4) Mary's friend, Sue, who was very active in the Women's Liberation Movement.
5) Ted's brother David, an actor with a high opinion of himself.
6) Mary's father, a music professor.
7) Mary's mother, who loved Shakespeare.
8) Mary's friend, Catherine, known to be rather snobbish.

Here, in a different order, is the advice they gave Mary:

a) "Spin a coin, and decide that way."
b) "David's rather a nice name. That would be a good compromise."
c) "Tell your husband that you had the child so you have the right to choose his name."
d) "I've always liked the names Johann Sebastian."
e) "Call him William. He'll be a sweet William. What a pity you didn't have a girl. There are such lovely names for girls — Heather, Rosemary, Lily, Fern, Daisy."
f) "He's got blond hair. You could call him Boyd — which means yellow."
g) "Charles is rather a refined name, don't you think? Not Robert, though, or Lawrence. Too ordinary, my dear."
h) "Hamlet would make an unusual, but attractive name."
Well, I soon sorted out who suggested what, then I gave my own advice, "Compromise!"
"How?" said Mary.
"In the same way as my parents," I said. "My father felt that I should be named after his father, and my mother felt the same way about naming me after her father. So, I'm named after both of them."
"You mean, they were both called Samuel?" said Mary.
"No. One was George, the other was Albert. Samuel is the compromise. I'm named George Albert Samuel, but called Samuel."
And so it was that my nephew was named Robert William Lawrence, but is called Lawrence.
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New Words

*energetic
a. full of energy 精力旺盛的，充满活力的

hiker
n. a person who travels about the country, esp. on foot 徒步旅行者

content
a. (with) satisfied with what one has; not wanting more 满意的；满足的

leisurely
a. relaxed; without hurrying 从容的；不慌不忙的

arise(arose,arisen)
vi. happen; appear 出现；呈现

tradition
n. a custom or belief that the people in a particular group or society have practiced or held for a long time 传统

unique
a. considered unusual; being the only one of its type 独特的，独一无二的

individual
n. a person 个人；个体
a. single; separate 个人的；个别的；单独的

painter
n. a person who paints pictures 画家

*gamble
n. a risky action or decision that one takes in the hope of gaining money, success, etc. 赌博
v. play cards or other games for money 赌博；打赌

snobbish
a. 势利的

spin(spun)
vt. turn round and round fast 使旋转

blond
a. 1. (of hair) light-coloured （头发）金黄色的；
2.（人）白肤金发碧眼的

refined
a. (of a person, his behaviour, etc.) having or showing education, gentleness of manners 文雅的，优美的

nephew
n. the son of one's brother or sister 侄，甥

Phrases and Expressions

give way
yield 让步，屈服

take the middle course
take a course of action which is a compromise between two extremes 采取折中办法

be on one's feet
be standing or walking 站立着

go off
leave; set off 离开；出发

have ... in mind
想到，考虑到；记得

call at
make a short visit at 短访，访问

name after
give sb. the same name as 以…的名字（为…）取名

with a high /low /good /bad opinion of
thinking well /badly of 对…评价高 / 低（好 / 不好）

sort out
separate from a large group; put in good order; set straight, make clear 拣出；整理；弄清楚

Proper Names

Leslie Dunkling
莱斯莉·邓克林（人名）

the Alps
阿尔卑斯山脉（欧洲中南部）

Lawrence
劳伦斯（男子名）

Edward
爱德华（男子名）

Fred
弗雷德（男子名）

Sybil
西比尔（女子名）

Sue
苏（女子名）

Shakespeare
莎士比亚（1564 - 1616，英国剧作家、诗人）

Catherine
凯瑟琳（女子名）

Johann Sebastian
约翰·塞巴斯蒂安（人名）

Heather
希瑟（女子名）

Rosemary
罗斯玛丽（女子名）

Fern
弗恩（女子名）

Daisy
黛茜（女子名）

Hamlet
汉姆雷特（莎士比亚同名剧作中的男主人公）

Samuel
萨缪尔（男子名）

Albert
阿尔伯特（男子名）