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第一篇 Chapter1 女人 你到底想要什么

what do women want

One reason why understanding a woman isn’t such an easy thing is because the way women process thoughts and emotions is drastically different than their male counterparts. Studies indicate women use emotion to processes thought as their bases for decision-making thirty percent more than men do. Add such, women are also known for being more intuitive than men. This is not exactly true as men use intuition in different ways and have different ways of communicating. Nevertheless, Men tend to bond to share activities, whereas women tend to bond to share thoughts and feelings.

So what do a woman really want to the man? Men can get what they want from women much more frequently when they approach the women with a few simple yet affective ().

1. woman wants a man to be confident. Confidence is the No. 1 quality a woman look for. Don’t be windy. Don’t apologize for everything. Be real. be you.

2. woman goes nuts over a man who will go the extra mile. For example, he opens a door for her; he walks in the right side of the street and helps her to stop. I am talking about being a gentleman. If she is cold, offer her your jacket. If she is in trouble, protect her. If there is a danger, pull your arm around her. Be a real man.

3. A sense of humor. Woman loves a man who can make her laugh. If you are dull, you are boring. If you make a woman laugh, you are half way home. Take a chance, be real but be funny.

4. Woman wants a man to listen and not necessarily give advice. Woman generally likes to complain about the problems. You need to understand that a woman needs to vent. Allow her this and she’ll allow you in, not say aha while she is talking. Be true to interested in what she is saying without worrying about what you are going to say next. Watch what happens.

5. Women want to be treated as they are the sexiest women on the planet, and that no other woman can compare. Talking about your ex-girlfriends is not going to score big points with your new woman, treating her like she is the only one will make her smile for quite a while.

6. Woman wants to know you will be faithful. Don’t tell a woman how you treated on your ex, it wouldn’t make her think you are wise, loyalty or trustfully. I’m not saying to lie to her, just don’t go there, don’t treat on your woman. She will not think you are a better man for doing this, just like you want to think you are the only man she has ever loved one. That’s the thing she wants, too.

7. Woman love a man with a plan, woman love a man with ambition. Man who know whom they are, what were we doing tonight, what were we doing with our wives. If he doesn’t have a plan, get one. I have a plan, and a plan ready at all times. So that no matter what it will appear, I am spontaneous. But really, I always know where, when and how the evening your date could go.

8. Woman says that they want to be cheated like an equal. This is not true. Woman wants to be treated like a woman, not like a man. If she wants to be with a woman, she will do that. She wants to be with you, therefore be a man. This is not to be confused with being treated like a piece of property, not to be confused with being treated with disrespect. Woman wants to be respected, and woman wants to be respected for being family, being a woman.

9. Be a true friend, let her share her good times and her problems with you. Be there, rather than just promising to be here.

10. Women want to be loved despite their flaws and need to be satisfied mentally, as much as physically. How would you love your child, this is how a woman wants to be loved. Sectionally speaking, woman to find great sex activity than a man using words like soft candy, light touch, then becoming more aggressive as a mood rise to the accession. Woman wants a man to be their lover and instead of sex over their bodies to just get a sex. That means taking your time, showing extra emotion, and being tend a way with her to let her know she is special.

11. Woman appreciates a man who is creative. Roses are nice, but sometimes it is extra special to thinks of something that most guys wouldn’t do for a woman. It could be something stupid. But if it is something that you think she would like, then why not do it, you might have just made her day.

12. Woman wants a sense of security, to know that her partner will be there if she become sick or when she draws odd or flabby. Give a woman security is being there through emotion and physical support.